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Make sure you scroll all the way to the bottom
so that you don't miss out on any of the important
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God's
Answer to Anxiety
(Phil 4:6-7)
1. You Need to Cultivate a Life of Prayer!
Determined by two essential conditions:
1. A Relationship to God- through Christ!
(1) One Way- Jn 14:6
(2) One Mediator- "For there is one God,
and one mediator between God and men,
the man Christ Jesus;" -- 1 Tim 2:5
(3) One Witness- Rom 8:16
(4) One Birth- Jn 1:12-13
2. A Reliance on God- in everything!
(1) God rewards diligence- Heb 11:6
Jesus underscored this: "And all things,
whatever ye shall ask in prayer, believing, ye shall receive" (Matt 21:22).
2. You Need to Receive the Gift of Peace! READ: Phil 4:6-7
Peace with God- Rom 5:1 Peace of God- Phil 4:7
1. God's Peace Stabilizes the Heart
(1) keep= strong GRK. "Build a fortress around"
(2) "Trust in the LORD with all thine heart;
and lean not unto thine own understanding." -- Prov 3:5
"Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are
the issues of life." -- Prov 4:23
2. God's Peace Tranquilizes the Mind- "Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth
in thee." -- Isa 26:3
3. You Need Exercise an Attitude of Praise! with thanksgiving!
1. Trusting God- James 1:5-6
ILLUS: 1940's Henry Bosch= WMBI job. Wartime=scarce housing.
Found small room, but told to vacate shortly.
Searched classified ads, nothing. Prayed.
He left w/assurance. On street, looked up
just as hand placed FOR RENT sign in third story window.
Expect your prayers to be answered by God!
2. Thanking God- "Enter His gates with thanksgiving"
Psa 100:4
REFLECTION:
"And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which
also ye are called in one body; and be ye thankful"
(Col 3:15).
"THE PROBLEM OF ANXIETY"
INTRODUCTION
1.
Everyone is familiar with anxiety; it is a problem of
epidemic proportions
2. Yet as prevalent as it is, anxiety or worry
is
one of the most counterproductive things we can do
a. Worry is like a rocking chair it will give you
something to do,but it won't get you anywhere
b. Worry is a fast getaway on a wooden horse
[How should the Christian approach the problem of worry?
What can we do about it? Perhaps by first...]
I. UNDERSTANDING
THE PROBLEM
A. WHAT IS ANXIETY? 1. Anxiety is distress about future
uncertainties... a. It is characterized by mental agitation and uneasiness b. It may be mild
or severe 2. It primarily has to do with what may happen in the future,
either near or distant
B. WHAT CAUSES ANXIETY? 1. Anxiety is caused by real
or imagined threats to our well- being... a. We feel vulnerable and inadequately protected
against these threats. b. Threats such as social rejection, physical injury
or disease, poverty, death, and a wide range of other threats. 2. Anxiety
has three main elements... a. Insecurity: something
bad is going to happen b. Helplessness: there is
nothing I can do c. Isolation: there is no one
to help me -- These causes may operate individually or in various
combinations 3. Emotionally, they cause just as much anxiety if they are imagined
as if they were real
[Anxiety is a form of fear, and must be recognized as such.
With an understanding of the problem, we are closer to...]
II.
OVERCOMING THE PROBLEM
A. TRUST IN GOD... 1.
The best remedy is to deal with the problem's causes, not just its symptoms 2.
What is the truth about insecurity, helplessness, and isolation with regard to the
Christian? a. While the Christian may feel insecure, the reality is that
he is very secure - Pro 3:21-26; He 4:16 b. While the Christian may
feel helpless, the reality is that he has great help - Ro
8:31; cf. Psa 27:5 c. While the Christian may feel
isolated, the reality is that God is always at his side - Psa
23:4; Mt 28:20; He 13:5,6 3. The remedy for anxiety is complete trust and confidence
in God's ability to deal with anything that threatens us - Isa 40:31;
Jn 14:1; Ph 4:13; cf. Deu 31:7,8; Ro 8:31 a.
The more we learn about God, the more we know His infinite
power and His concern for us - 1 Pe 5:6,7 b. The avenue
of prayer is open to the Christian to request God's
- 1 Jn 5:14 c. God has promised peace of mind to those
who are willing to commit their anxieties to Him - Jn
16:33; Ph 4:6,7; 1 Pe 4:19
B.
TAKE THESE PRACTICAL STEPS... 1. Read the Bible a. Committing
ourselves to God's safekeeping requires that we grow in our knowledge
of God and love for Him b. Thus, the most important thing we can do is study the Scriptures,
pray, and meditate on God's promises to His faithful
people - Ro 15:4 2. Be realistic a.
Peace of mind does not depend on solving all the problems, righting
all the wrongs, removing all the imperfections, or getting
all we want - cf. Ecc 8:16-17 b. Some things will not change
and we need to be realistic enough to accept that
1) There are problems that have no solutions 2) There
are situations that must simply be lived through 3)
The art of being wise is the art of knowing what to
overlook (William James) - cf. Pro 19:11 c. Realistic
knowledge of our own limitations ought to cause us to
relax and slow down 1) Besides the noble art of getting
things done is the noble art of leaving
things undone 2) The wisdom of life consists in the
elimination of nonessentials (Gladstone) d.
We must learn to let go of some problems and allow the Lord to
be in charge of them - 1 Pe 5:7; cf. Pro 3:5,6 3. Be
flexible a. Change is inevitable; we have got to be resilient,
adaptable, adjustable - cf. Ph 4:11-12 b. Under stress,
if we can't bend, we will surely break c. Our faith must be in Him who
changes not d. There are some changes we ought to resist without compromise;
wisdom can tell us when to change and when to hold our ground 4.
Focus on the good cares, minimize the unnecessary ones
a. In the Bible, cares can be either good or bad 1)
Good - 1 Co 12:25; 2 Co 11:28; Ph 2:20
2) Bad - Mt 13:22; Ph 4:6; 1 P 5:7 b. We tend to become distracted
by many relatively unimportant cares, and don't care enough about the things
we ought to - Mt 13:22 c.
When the mind is distracted by many pursuits, it derives but
little benefit from any of them d. Really only one thing is necessary - Lk
10:41,42; cf. Mt 6: 33,34 5.
Learn to live one day at a time a. Proper use of today diminishes
anxiety about tomorrow - . Mt 6:34 1)
Anxiety does not empty tomorrow of its worries and
sorrows; it only empties today of its strengths 2) Worry
is the interest paid on trouble before it falls due b. Many, if not most,
of our fears will turn out to be unfounded 1)
Winston Churchill said on his deathbed that he had a lot of
trouble in his life, most of which never happened 2) In headaches
and in worry vaguely life leaks away, and Time
will have his fancy tomorrow or today (W. H. Auden) 6. Stay busy a.
Anxiety and idleness often go hand-in-hand 1) Blessed is the person who
is too busy to worry in the daytime, and too sleepy to
worry at night
b. Much good can be accomplished,
even in adverse circumstances, if we will quit concentrating on what cannot be
done and do what CAN be done
1) Don't waste time in doubts and fears; spend
yourself in the work before you, well assured that the right performance
of this hour's duties will be the best preparation for the hours or ages that follow it (Ralph Waldo Emerson
2) Our great business in life is not to see what lies dimly at a distance,
but to do what lies clearly at hand (Thomas Carlyle) c. There is no tranquilizer as effective as the knowledge that we
have done our best and there is no pillow as soft as a good conscience 7. Learn contentment a.
A lesson Paul had learned - Ph 4:11-13 1) We need to be able to rejoice in the Lord, which we can do
if we continually count our blessings - Ph 4:4,6 2) The Christian ought to be able to
see the silver lining in the darkest
cloud b. The discontented Christian may lose his soul because of it - 1 Ti 6:6-8;
He 13:5,6 1) Anxiety often comes from having too much, rather than too little - Ecc 5:12 2)
Our wealth depends not so much on what we have, as what we can do without. c. When a problem
produces anxiety within us, the very best thing we can do than bathe the problem
in two things: reverence and gratitude
CONCLUSION
1.
The Christian is given the means to deal with anxiety... a. Peace that comes through prayer - cf. Ph
4:6-7 b. Reassuring confidence from trusting in God - cf. Psa 23:1-6
2. Whenever
the feelings of insecurity, helplessness, and isolation produce anxiety... a. Focus on putting
your trust in God b. Read the Bible, be realistic, be flexible, focus on the good
cares, minimize the unnecessary ones, learn to live one day at a time, stay busy, and learn
contentment
Resource sites
Here is a selection of resource pages. If any are no longer available, please report them
to me. Thank you! You can no doubt find many more by searching within Google
http://guide.gospelcom.net/resources/frameforlinks.php?id=http://www.google.com/&referer=&des=Google
Helpful Christian Links
101 Christian Advice . Net
Christian advice, counselors directory
and Bible references on love, relationships, dating, depression, self esteem, temptation lust, marriage etc. http://www.christianadvice.net Topical Directory of Resources - Radio Bible Class Radio Bible
Class - Are you looking for an Our Daily Bread Article on the love of God? Has Campus Journal ever printed a devotional on
depression? Well, you've come to the right place! This site features a topical list of RBC Ministries' Online Resources. Forget
those long searches through huge archives. This easy-to-use site puts our resources at your fingertips. And the topical list
will grow as we continue to add new material to our Internet site. http://www.gospelcom.net/rbc/resources/devos/
Christian Depression Pages A site devoted to compassionate information
about depression from a Christian perspective. FIND HOPE IN THE CHRISTIAN DEPRESSION PAGES For those struggling with depression
or seeking to understand it more clearly, the Christian Depression Pages (CDP) provides a "compassionate source of information
for Christians with depression and those caring for them." Find information on what depression is and isn't, its causes and
symptoms, how it affects Christians, how to find help and how to help others. Learn about the various types of anti-depressants
and their side effects and find suggestions for countering the well-meaning--but often ill-fitting--advice of friends and
family who may not fully understand depression. Visitors can also find books about faith, suffering, and living the Christian
life, and they can share their feelings and concerns in several message forums. http://www.gospelcom.net/cdp/ Extreme River: radical perspectives Radical Christian help for
those considering suicide or suffering from depression http://extremeriver.org Booklets from Al Denson Show FREE online booklets from Al Denson
Show: Servanthood Parent / Teen Relationships 101 Winning Over Temptation Signs of the Times Christian Character Mastering
Money God's Purpose - My Passion Wicca: The Deceptive Side of Evil Surviving The Loses of Life Sin of Comparison The Aftermath
of Abortion Worship Peacemaking God's Way Angels & Demons: Fact or Fiction? Where Do We Go When We Die? Attitude is Everything
Fractured Families The Freedom of Forgiveness Rejecting Rejection Dating is Not a Game The Real Price of Pornography Rebuilding
Americas Foundation of Faith Hope for Overcoming Lifes Addictions Why Worry? The Power of the Tongue Suicide Can You Pass
the Stress Test? School Zone All in the Family Hope (you can not live without it) Homosexuals and the Christian Response Need
Directions The Many Faces of Depression When Someone You Love Dies The Fatherless Home Voices and Choices Hope for Todays
Teens Loving the Unlovable Standing Strong From Darkness to Light - Overcoming Sexual Abuse Prayer Moving from Guiltsville
to Graceland Garbage In Garbage Out Winning friends that make you a winner Freedom from Fear The Rx for Healthy Esteem Defeat
& Discouragement What to remember when you are tempted to forget. How Does God Spell S E X The Purpose and Power of Praise
The Amazing Graceless Violence America's Anger Epidemic http://www.aldenson.com/mm/show/order.php3?id=3 THE COUNSELING CENTER Free biblically based counseling on a
number of subjects, including: financial, gambling, marital, substance abuse, depression, abortion, parenting. Plus, a look
at The Meaning Of Life, pointing willing hearts to the ultimate solution, life in Jesus Christ. http://counselingcenter.homestead.com/ Active Depression Support Online Depression Support community.
Includes support forums, chat rooms, personal journals and resources for all those with mood disorders. Deals with Self Harm,
suicide, depression, abuse, ocd, anxiety and other important issues. http://www.trappedminds.org About Christian Counseling Online Qualified, caring therapist
provides email christian counseling. Depression, spiritual struggles, relationships, anxiety... http://christian.sunrisecounselling.com BibleSource Publications - DougBrittonBooks Biblically-based
books and online Bible studies on marriage, parenting, communication, money and other family topics including depression,
anger, jealousy, insecurity, self esteem, temptation and small group leadership. http://www.dougbrittonbooks.com
MadeMeCry
Read and share Christian stories, poems, and humor. Tell of
amazing Christians you know. Share experiences with depression and suicide. http://mademecry.tripod.com
Kingdom First Deliverance Ministry Online Deliverance from demons that
cause depression,fear,eating disorders,addictions,anger,rage,pornography and more. Deliverance from demons is available online
at Kingdom First Ministries. http://www.kingdom-first.com/deliverance.htm
Bright Star Counseling Center Bright Star Counseling Center in South
Bend, Indiana provides individual, family, marital, couples, and group Christian therapy services to children, adolescents,
and adults who suffer from ADHD, anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, grief, trauma, ineffective discipline, anger, and out-of-control
behavior. http://www.BrightStarCenter.com
Why God Allows Pain? Loneliness, depression, bitterness, negativity,
sorrow, loss and the like eat at the heart of man as a painful cancer. Emotional strife has dogged man throughout history.
Those maintaining a sense of compassion for the emotionally troubled, cannot help but hurt inwardly over their trials. http://e-tacklebox.com/questions2/allow-pain.htm Q & A - John Hagee
Abortion Burial and Cremation Capital
Punishment Depression and Anxiety Healing Prayer Israel and the Jewish People Bible Prophecy and the Rapture Suffering and
Sickness Tithing and Financial Prosperity http://e-tacklebox.com/john-hagee.htm Titus 2 Over 30 writers using Scripture to deal with the every
day and the complicated issues of life. Along with a humor , kitchen, gardening, library, games sections we provde HOPE sections
on abuse issues, troubled and strong marriages, illness, grief, parenting depression and more. We also have a comprehensive
family filter friendly child abuse section...all in over 4000 pages of text.
Audio Sermons Online by Pottstown Bible Church
Audio Sermons Online
to strengthen and encourage your walk with God. Audio sermons on a wide varitey of topics such as, hope, anger, depression,
quarreling, peace, crucifixion and more. Audio sermons are in RealaudioŽ format http://www.pottstownbiblechurch.org Online Counseling & Certificate Courses Counseling, Depression,
Marriage & Family, Anxiety, Anger Management, Eating Disorders, Addictions, Child Rearing, Therapy, FREE Intakes and Registrations,
Temperament Analysis, APS http://www.godswordministry.org LifeCare Counseling Services
Christian counseling for depression
and anxiety serving residents of Indianapolis, Carmel, Fishers, Noblesville, Zionsville, Indiana. http://www.LifeCareCounselingServices.com 4 Hurting Christians Online support for Christians
and non-Christians that have suffered hurt and pain and been wounded by others and the church in times past. http://www.4hurtingchristians.com/
Each year more than 30,000 persons in the United States take their own life. Suicide is the eighth leading cause of death
and the third leading cause among persons who are 15 to 24. More persons die by suicide than by homicide. Each year nearly
500,000 persons make a suicide attempt serious enough to receive emergency room treatment. Millions have suicidal thoughts http://www.elca.org/dcs/suicide_prevention.html
Spiritual Boutique for the Downhearted Woman Pressure takes many forms
and is often cloaked in the garb of best intentions. Sometimes, it even causes deep pain that can damage or destroy lives
permanently. The good news is that there is hope. You don’t have to live with that burden any longer. http://www.womentodaymagazine.com/link/
Suicide Awareness The mission of SA\VE is to educate about suicide prevention
and to speak for suicide survivors. http://www.save.org/
Suicide: Read This First
If you are feeling suicidal now, please stop
long enough to read this. It will only take about five minutes. I do not want to talk you out of your bad feelings. I am not
a therapist or other mental health professional - only someone who knows what it is like to be in pain. http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/spagebw.htm
SuicideHotlines.com - When You Feel You Can't Go On -- Let Someone Know Your
Pain. You can call a Suicide Hotline Right Now. .. http://suicidehotlines.com/
General Christian Recovery Directories These Christian recovery sites carry a large range
of helpful web-sites and email support lists – some Christian, some secular.
In a Christian context http://guide.gospelcom.net/resources/frameforlinks.php?id=http://www.dickb.com/&referer=&des=Dick B on 12 steps uniquely successful in situations where advice, prayer, good intentions or willpower
have been unable to bring complete release. The significance of 12-Step Recovery is often not fully realized. Many think of
it as only related to alcohol abuse, and are unaware of the Christian origin of the system or how successful it can be when
used in a fully Christian context. If you wish to help people who have any form of dependency or addiction, learn about the
12 Steps and their use in a group situation.
Email support lists. There are also many two-way email support lists for people with different
types of problems. You may find these useful, both for learning more about how people face particular types of problems, and
also as a resource to recommend to people with a specific problem. Yahoo Groups have many wonderful support groups of all
kinds, and they are free to join.
Depression
Suicide
Grief
The process of dealing with grief and loss.
Domestic violence
Sex And Romance
Stonewall Revisited. Highly recommended site on gay issues. They do not do counseling themselves, but pass inquirers
on to for example
Sex addiction:
Christians in Recovery lists
Abuse
Offense Recovery
General Recovery sites. Disabilities and illness
Debt counseling

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